Ask Rochelle

Nice to meet you...My name is Cristina and I found you through Shirley MacLaine. My question is: Will I ever have a satisfying and healthy relationship with another woman, and why have I not been able to really make a relationship happen with a woman that I am attracted to? I think I might know the answers to my own question but I just need to hear how I can heal my old attitudes, which I need to really get clear on what they are, and my self-esteem...I just have not beenwith a woman in a very long time, and it's really hurtful to me.

Thanks,

Nina

Dear Nina,

Thank you for your connection. I am sorry you are in pain. Let's see what the guides say and remember they are talking about your energy and how you are creating your life from the inside out. You are correct in creating your life the way you have been (strong independence) however why continue to alienate relationships out of fear? What we suggest is a stint of brief counseling sessions. You will get more clarity if you begin to question your dysfunctional energies, meaning the energies which are within you which no longer serve your purpose. So begin here to examine what has been dysfunctional (feels like anger) and what has been the purpose (strong resentment and then abandonment energy) which you tend to place within a space between your being and another, which then creates fear of reprisal? Why this defense? We suggest asking yourself this question to determine the history behind the defense and then the outcome for clearing the defense can take root. Without understanding first, the energetic release cannot occur. Now we can answer history, however, a clearer answer (getting father energy here then feels like sexual abuse energy) must come from within. It is not thoroughly satisfactory to clear the issue. So what we suggest is becoming brave and proceed into a short stint of counseling that will clearly clear your inquiry.

Many blessings to you, love, Stars