Big Love: Soulmate Secrets from Arielle & Brian

Arielle Ford, author of The Soulmate Secret: Manifest The Love of Your Life With The Law of Attraction and her husband Brian Hilliard, a business consultant, answer your questions about life, love and relationships. They believe that whether you are eighteen or eighty years old finding Big Love is always possible. Email your questions to: soulmatesecret@yahoo.com

Dear Arielle and Brian,

Nearly 35 years ago my husband walked out on me, and our two small children. I was devastated as I believed he was my soulmate, my one and only. I never remarried because I could never stop loving him and hoping that we would some day reunite (even though he remarried and currently is with wife #3).

Now, as I near my retirement, I am suddenly aware of how little time I have left on the planet and I want to finally let go of the past and find new love. Is it too late for me?

Love,

Paula

Dear Paula,

We have great news for you! It is not too late for you to experience unimaginable, legendary love and manifest a soulmate who will appreciate and adore you. We know of many men and women who had found love in their later years. Here’s the first step: It’s okay to love your ex-husband. In fact, it’s probably impossible to stop loving the ones we’ve loved and cared for. However, you need to finally accept that he is long gone, not coming back, and it’s time to forgive him and let go. See if you can find a little corner of your heart to place your love for him in and when you catch yourself thinking about him, remember to put him back into that little place and focus on the heart traits and delicious qualities of your soon-to-be met soulmate. Whatever destiny or karma you once had with your ex-husband is now complete so give yourself the gift of moving on to something that serves you and the greater good.

Ask yourself this: what are the traits and qualities my heart most desires in a soulmate?

Becoming laser clear about who this person is, what they’re like, and MOST IMPORTANTLY what you will FEEL like when you’re with them, is essential to your success in manifesting your soulmate.

Once you figure this out, and actually integrate this into the core of your being, you will be well on your way to new love.

Don't spend a minute wishing you had done any of this sooner, if you could have, you would have. Remember to leave room for divine timing and also be grateful that you are now open and available for the love you’ve always desired.

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,

Arielle and Brian

Arielle Ford has spent the past 25 years living and promoting consciousness through all forms of media. She is the author of the international bestselling book, THE SOULMATE SECRET: Manifest The Love of Your Life With The Law of Attraction. Her husband and soulmate Brian Hilliard is a business consultant with a life-long interest in spirituality and the practice of compassion. They live in La Jolla, CA www.soulmatesecret.com and www.soulmatekit.com

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