Karmic Relationships
by Ellie Pechet, MA
As if this life isn’t complicated enough, right? The majority of us have been around the block a lot more times than this current life. As I understand this interesting subject, who we are here and now is much more than who we think we are based on simply our upbringing and life experiences, which can already seem like a lot right?
In fact, we are our experiences up to now AND we are also the sum total of all of our previous lifetimes. I know… fascinating, aren’t we?
The more conscious we become of our past lives and relationships influencing us in this one, the more we can understand our own patterns and relationships with those who come into our life this time.
You know how sometimes you meet someone, and there is an immediate connection? You may feel like you have known them for a long time, it’s like this person you are meeting for the first time feels like your sister, or long time friend...
Well, often, they actually were the person they feel like when you are with them, in a past life. This is how it works. In fact, our Souls recognize each other first, and then our conscious self does. It works the other way also. You might have a good feeling about someone you meet initially, yet within a few times of seeing each other, you feel angry or distrusting of this person for no rational reason. Well, it might take a few times of being together for your Soul to remember what actually happened in the past life (or lives) and although the actual experience won’t be conscious for most people, the emotions from the memory manifest and you can’t explain the feelings rationally unless you understand the prior life. For example, if you swindled that person in business, or ran off with their lover, there is unfinished business between the two of you. If the relationship is significant to you and or you are doing your best to live a conscious life, it is good for your conscious self and your growth as a Soul to find out what happened causing you to feel unusually strong positive or negative feelings with a particular person, ie; sister, mother, father, brother, spouse, boss… The more conscious we become, the more empowered and clear our interactions are when we are together. And you don’t need to worry about if the other person is aware of the past life (lives). It might not be appropriate for them and sometimes it is. What matters most is that you understand the dynamic and can keep your side of the street clean.
I’ll give you an example. My birth mother in this life was also my birth mother in one of our past lives together when I was Marie Antoinette. In that life, she groomed me for the role of Queen from when I was very small, always mostly concerned with how I behaved, how I appeared, how I spoke etc. She was looking out for her own interests when I was to marry the king. There was no warmth or concern about my feelings, all that mattered to her was the external appearance.
In this life, she repeated a similar pattern of behaviors, being mostly concerned with my performance, outward appearance, how I talk, even how I laugh etc.
Anyway, when I became aware of that life, it helped make me sense of our relationship this life. By understanding, it helped me not take the way she treated me personally. I was able to be objective and be myself, my genuine self so it was helpful to discover this.
As I mentioned earlier, we have known most of the people we meet from a past life (sometimes more than one) although we often don’t remember the specific story of when, how and what happened.
Past life readings are one of the services I provide. If there is someone you would like to understand your past connection with, reach out. I do past life work as a tool for growth, understanding, and healing.
Love,
Ellie Pechet, M.Ed.
Metaphysician, Shaman, Author
www.PhoenixRisingHealing.com
PhoenixRisingHealing@gmail.com
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